This is a most common misconception among the people of recent generation. They tend to think that if a girl and boy are frank to each other, they cannot be just friends. They are thought to be in relationship. This is the so called thinking of people living in 21st century. I know the one having such type of thinking will hate my content, but guys this is so true.
If a boy/girl are friendly enough it is not always necessary that they are boyfriend and girlfriend. They can be just friends too if they truly meant it to be. However, I too disagree over the topic. You might be wondering that why it is so, am i right? According to me, if a boy/girl used to talk to each other too much, if they shares everything to each other without any hesitation. They are something more than 'just friends', they are 'best friends for life'.
They may be in love too, a better kind of never ending love.
Those girl and boy trust each other, they cares for each other, they understand each other, they scold each other, and they stay together forever beyond words, beyond distance and beyond time. They know one another, they inspire one another, they helps you to be a better person and this be not wrong to say that they makes you a better person.
A most famous incident proving this be the friendship between Harry and Hermione. They proved the world that one can stays as friends. Thanks to them for leaving such a great example.
If a girl talks to more than one boy, she is considered a slut. But why it is the way? Can a girl not make so many friends like the way a boy makes many? Does the girl has no rights to talk to many? Is she living in a different society? Being a human being who the hell are you to call her a slut. People possessing such a mid-class thinking must know that particular girl is not a slut, rather slut is your mind and your way of thinking. You people must go and wash your dirty mind. Yaa guys I'm so sorry that I hurted your ego but being a part of this society you definitely need to change.
Difference between love and friendship :
Friendship and love are like the two opposite sides of a coin. Let us now know the way this two differs. Lovers always talk about their love but friends hardly talk about their friendship. Love means change in one's choices, and opinions but friendship means trust. Love means restrictions while friendship means end of restrictions. Lovers feels it odd to talk to one another like the way they used to talk to their friends like abusing one another, feeling free to say everything they want. The fights in love results in the most common break-ups and then obviously moving on a search for a new partner. Is it a true kind of love in which one forgets someone so easily and gets ready to be with an another person. It can not be neglected that not everyone is the same. Some kind of lovers are good too.
Is this the same in case of friends? No, it is not so. Friends fight but the love that is between them is a pure kind of love, an eternal love that restricts them to replace each other. It is true that when love is there, friendship vanishes but in case of true friends love exceeds. Obviously this is a different kind of love. And I think this is a better one. Always explaining and justifying your love ends it day by day, often people gets bored from their partners while friends never do so, they remain together for life. I am not saying that I am against love between two partners but that love must be like friendship, that never ends and remains the same forever, and the one that is filled with joy and happiness which has no doubts, sacrifices or restrictions.
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If a boy/girl are friendly enough it is not always necessary that they are boyfriend and girlfriend. They can be just friends too if they truly meant it to be. However, I too disagree over the topic. You might be wondering that why it is so, am i right? According to me, if a boy/girl used to talk to each other too much, if they shares everything to each other without any hesitation. They are something more than 'just friends', they are 'best friends for life'.
They may be in love too, a better kind of never ending love.
Those girl and boy trust each other, they cares for each other, they understand each other, they scold each other, and they stay together forever beyond words, beyond distance and beyond time. They know one another, they inspire one another, they helps you to be a better person and this be not wrong to say that they makes you a better person.
A most famous incident proving this be the friendship between Harry and Hermione. They proved the world that one can stays as friends. Thanks to them for leaving such a great example.
If a girl talks to more than one boy, she is considered a slut. But why it is the way? Can a girl not make so many friends like the way a boy makes many? Does the girl has no rights to talk to many? Is she living in a different society? Being a human being who the hell are you to call her a slut. People possessing such a mid-class thinking must know that particular girl is not a slut, rather slut is your mind and your way of thinking. You people must go and wash your dirty mind. Yaa guys I'm so sorry that I hurted your ego but being a part of this society you definitely need to change.
Difference between love and friendship :
Friendship and love are like the two opposite sides of a coin. Let us now know the way this two differs. Lovers always talk about their love but friends hardly talk about their friendship. Love means change in one's choices, and opinions but friendship means trust. Love means restrictions while friendship means end of restrictions. Lovers feels it odd to talk to one another like the way they used to talk to their friends like abusing one another, feeling free to say everything they want. The fights in love results in the most common break-ups and then obviously moving on a search for a new partner. Is it a true kind of love in which one forgets someone so easily and gets ready to be with an another person. It can not be neglected that not everyone is the same. Some kind of lovers are good too.
Is this the same in case of friends? No, it is not so. Friends fight but the love that is between them is a pure kind of love, an eternal love that restricts them to replace each other. It is true that when love is there, friendship vanishes but in case of true friends love exceeds. Obviously this is a different kind of love. And I think this is a better one. Always explaining and justifying your love ends it day by day, often people gets bored from their partners while friends never do so, they remain together for life. I am not saying that I am against love between two partners but that love must be like friendship, that never ends and remains the same forever, and the one that is filled with joy and happiness which has no doubts, sacrifices or restrictions.
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