Don't Trust Everything That You Hear

It is the ability or can be well said to be the human nature to trust to whatever they listen without knowing whether it is a truth or just a rumor. Believing what the crowd says is just a way of saying:
"I'm too lazy to believe my heart and knowing the truth".

There be a nice example relating this verse:
If someone offered you $100,000 to stand in front of a moving train, would you do it? I bet you said NO. But what if he/she told you the train was a toy. 
MORAL of the story - Know all the facts before you consider anything and then open your mouth.

It is better to close one's mouth than to speak foolishly.People talk shit but we don't have to listen. Anyone can spread wrong about someone, but be the one who believe the truth.

Don't be so quick to believe what you hear, because lies spread faster than the truth. Don't believe any rumor on girls/boys so fast because the boy/girl who can't get her/him may create it and the girls/boys who are jealous of her/him respectively might spread it. 

A lie can travel half way around the world while the truth is just putting on its shoes. Most of the idle people loves to create rumors about others. They find it fun to do so. They tends to think that by spreading bad things about others, they can lower others value and what is said to be their image. This is so because either they are jealous, haters or just consider it as their timepass.

The shit people talk about someone, behind their back, it's not their character, it's the character those rumor spreading people lack. Don't trust people who tell you other people's secrets. Even if you hear a bad story about someone, understand there might be a time he/she could be good to those people too but they won't tell you that. Have patience with all the things, be clear with the actual matter, then go for whatever you want to do.

Learn To Say "NO"

Learn to say 'no' without explaining yourself.
Learn to say 'no' to what is not okay.

You ought to spend a little more time trying to do something with yourself rather than spending time to impress people. We are not here to impress them we are here to make our life a recommendable example to others, to make ourselves satisfied. Learn to say no to what is not good to you. Or your conscience do not allow you. You make think it selfishness but no. I will call it self respect. 

In today's world, the knowledge about when to say yes and

when to say no is  must otherwise you will be treated as a toy or puppet controled by others. It is not always necessary to agree

to what people says. We need to put over our decisions in this

shitty world. Bring about your ideas in front of people, speak out what you feel or what is your opinion on a point. You make think it interference but no. It's our right. 

We must do what is good and not what people says.

Often we hesitate and feel odd to disagree over a speaker's statement. This attitude need to be changed.

Turn your mind to not everyone is important and not

everything they says need to be taken unto consideration,unless you yourself find it suitable. 

Be there for others but never lose yourself behind.

Whenever you want to disagree just do so within a moment

and be stuck to your opinion if the speaker is not right then it will be all fine.

Saying 'no' to useless things means saying 'no' to waste of time,

saying 'no' to tensions, saying 'no' to worries and saying 'yes' to

peace of mind and soul.

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How to stay motivated when you are losing hopes.

Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very mean and nasty place, and we must not care about how others are, as it will beat us to our knees and keep us permanently there if we let it in. You, me or nobody gonna hit it as hard as life. But it ain't about how hard you hit. It's about how hard you can get hit and still keep moving forward. How much you can take and still keep moving forward. That's how winning is done!

Sometimes we lose our hopes and motivation to achieve something and we begin to think that we can't achieve that. So here are my five golden steps to help you stay positive and achieve success, if you will follow them you will never lose motivation.

1. TAKE A DEEP BREATH_

I know it sounds awkward but its true because when you are stressed, you have to calm down. And a deep breath works the best in providing mental peace. Just what you have to do is, close your eyes, don't think anything, stay calm, breath in, hold your breath for 3-4 seconds, breath out and repeat the same for minimum 20 times. It will provide you much relief and you will be able to think and imagine things in a better way. You will understand things deeper and will help you much to move towards victory.

2. NOTE DOWN WHAT'S DISTRACTING YOU_

It is very common that there are so many things and so many people who let you lose your motivation and lose your hopes by complementing you with so many negative things that you let distract yourself. So do one thing write down all the things which makes you to lose your motivation. Never forget people will always pray for your success but never more than them. They will always try to pull you down. And if someone is pulling you down, that itself means you are already above them. So be happy if someone is doing so and continue with your works in the same manner. Ignore everyone else who is pulling you down and saying that you can't do this or that.

3. NOTE DOWN WHY YOU STARTED DOING IT_

Write down all the things for what you have started, i.e, fame, money, family, friends, dream, career, inspiration for others etc. Just write all the things in a piece of paper. This will remind you of your aim and will help to ignore other's opinion.

4. COMPARE WHATS MORE IMPORTANT_

Just compare by yourself what's more important for you , your dreams or what people thinks about you, because of which you can't handle your stress and work for your dreams. Consider by yourself that what is truely important for you, your answer must be your dreams. Once you come to know your priority, it will be very simple to overcome stress and negative thoughts. I can bet you that you can't achieve your goals if you would be stressed with what others think. After knowing all this, question yourself whether you can fight for your dreams, and achieve success or not?

5. WORK TO ACHIEVE GOOD_

Once you have decided what is more important, once you came to know your goal, then start working for achieving it. Ignore everything that distracts you from your path. Just stay determinant to your goal. The only thought that must come into mind is how to attain your dream, your goal and nothing else.

If you think you can do it then just be focussed to your destination and your goals. Trust me no one can stop you. Don't listen what they say just keep it up. There is an idiom 'when an elephant walks, so many dogs barks'. Same is the case with human beings, if a person will walk towards success, is working to achieve something great, there are so many people who will bark uselessly and will tell you that you can't do this, they will try to pull you down by imparting negative thoughts and feelings, but trust me in this world nothing is impossible. You can do whatever you think if you are truly determinant to it.

Don't just read this content and leave it, try it practically and I am 100% sure that if you will  follow it you will definitely get motivated and will never lose hope. So just try it.

What is karma | Real meaning of karma | Explained in short.

"You harm yourself, as dust thrown against the wind comes back thrower."

                                                                                                                         - Buddha.

Origin_

Karma is a concept came from the east and is mainly popular in Buddhism and Hindu tradition. Karma it self is a Sanskrit word, which actually means actions.

Myths of karma_ 

Most of the people especially in West thinks that Karma is a universal law of justice. For example, if someone robe the bank and the police is unable to catch him, people used to think that karma will play his role and something bad will happen to the roberer or basically if someone had done something wrong or evil then karma will make him suffer physically mentally or emotionally.

Real meaning of karma_

Basically karma can be thought to be something like the concept of action and reaction. It is said that every action has its equal and opposite reaction. Same funda is with karma but it may take time, i.e.  whatever good or bad you do, you will surely receive something as a present of your work. There is an idiom, what you sow is what you get. So karma is all about if you have done something good to someone in return karma will payoff you good and if you have done something wrong to someone or evil to someone then in return karma will make you to suffer.

Karma tell you what type of person you are.As your attitude towards other reflects the inner you.The what you get in return is what you really are.The way you are treated is the reflection of how you treared them.

Karma is literally a bitch.It will make you suffer what you make others to or it will make you happier.

Do such things that when karma will return it amaze you with happiness not shock with the troubles

This is all what Karma is.

So fear from your karma. Never do something bad to others else you will have to suffer. Always be kind and generous to others, help others, be good to other and wait for karma for his turn.

So always be kind to other, help others, be good to other and wait for karma for his turn.

Opportunities are like alarm clock - we must know how to respond

Have any of you ever set up your alarm clock to wake up in the morning? I am sure you have. Of course, I am not asking how many of you have been successful in waking up after the alarm goes. It's quite amazing to see the different reactions of different individuals when the alarm goes and I have classified different people in four different types which I call sleepers, snoozers, fallers and wakers.

1.Sleepers_ 

This guys, when the alarm rings, they are so deep in their sleep, practically in the state of slumber that everyone around them wakes up but these guys are fast asleep. They don't listen to the clock and are busy sleeping.

2.Snoozers_

These are the people who when the alarm rings says,"Let me sleep for five minutes more." These guys profusely express their gratitude to God for having inspired that gentleman who invented the snooze button. When people keep just snoozing, five minutes, five minutes more, another five minutes, and their five minutes goes on for hours; each ring of their alarm eventually turn second to minutes, minutes to hours and complete working time to ideal one. But at least these guys wake up at the fourth or fifth snooze and rescue themselves from a major loss. 

3.Fallers_

Those guys who wakes up at the first ring of the alarm, they even change their state and sit in their bed but fails to make themselves out of deep ocean of their own confusions. Asking themselves, "Who am I? Why did I set the alarm in the first place?" And then conveniently they turn off the alarm and again go back to sleep. 

4.Wakers_

This is the best category I found. These are the people who actually wakes up as soon as the alarm rings. They get out of bed and hit the floor to start with their day to day activities. They never waste their time and are very strict with their schedule. Though these kind of people are very hard to find but they are the ones who move the footsteps towards victory.

Life is like an alarm clock. It gives everyone many opportunities and chances to overcome from their situations and problems. When life clock rang some, there are four types of people again :-

1.Sleepers_

They keep hearing the opportunities, but they are in such a deep state of slumber, that they don't respond at all. In fact they just continue with their old ways and lose all their new opportunities. For their assumptions the stroke of alarm was not for them but for others, or it can be said that they gave others a signal to start something new but they themselves do not make even a single step to move on with life's opportunities. 

2.Snoozers_

These kinda people on hearing the life opportunities, they say, "Yes, we will grab this opportunity, we have to do it but eventually not today, we will start from tomorrow."  They just snooze and snooze, and they keep postponing. But finally a good day arrives when they achieves it. Most of the people belong to this kind. They lose most of their time in just postponing their tasks and increases their burden.

3.Fallers_

Those who when they hear any opportunity, they actually wake up, they start changing, they start doing right. But then, for some reason they go back to their old ways, they lose their hopes and lose their opportunities to achieve good. Perhaps they still holds the hand of their past and find it difficult to leave. They can't make themselves understand that their own beliefs are the only hindrance for them. They resist the possible changes in their life and remain stuck with their old types.

4.Wakers_

These are those people, who when opportunities clock is heard by them, they wake up. Awaken, and start the process of transformation and change by the earliest means and they become successful. In real, they are the holder of time and opportunity at the same stroke. Their success is the reflection of their efforts in finding, understanding, realizing and utilizing the opportunity available to them. 

All of us have to be wakers. We must not be like sleepers, snoozers or fallers. So grab the opportunities just like a child holds its favorite toy, a mother holds her child and an eye holds a dream to become successful in life. If you succeed in becoming a waker, then you are sure to succeed in life.

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POSITIVE THINKING CAN CHANGE THE WORLD

Yes what we think is what we become. For this lets take a example to Thomas Alva Edison_

THOMAS ALVA EDISON_

Thomas Alva Edition ( February 11, 1847 to October 18, 1931 ) was an American inventor who is considered one of America's leading businessmen.Inventor Thomas Edison created great  innovation such as the first commercially practical incandescent light bulb and the phonograph. A savvy businessman, he held more than 1,000 patents for his inventions.

HIS REAL LIFE STORY_

Once Thomas Edison came from school with  letter on his hand,he gave it to his mother saying that my teacher give this letter especially to you read, his mother opens the small piece of paper, read it and start crying and said his son," Tommy! your teacher has written that Thomas is such an intelligent boy, he is genius. This school is too small for him and doesn't have enough good teachers to train him. Its better that he doesn't come to school any longer and you train him at home." Years later when Thomas mother had died and Thomas Edison was one of the greatest inventors of the century. He was at his mother home clearing things up and in a small drawer, he found that little piece of paper folded paper that letter that the teacher that given years back to his mum. Thomas Alva Edison opened the piece of paper read the contents and he broke down in tears 

crying profusely because what was written on the paper was, "Madam your son Thomas is a dunce, he is mentally ill, he does not fit into this school, I do not think he ever make it there so we are expelling and throwing out of the school.

Today he is one of the greatest inventor of the century, that day if his mother told Thomas that he is dunce, he is mentally ill, he would not become one of the greatest inventor  but he became because he thinks that he is so intelligent and genius and that really make him genius.

SO ALWAYS THINK POSITIVE.  

Lessons from a Pencil

When pencil maker made the pencil for the first time it gave the pencil some crucial and important instruction which gave us some extremely inspiring lessons. The five most inspiring lessons which a pencil gives are..

1.WHAT'S TRULY IMPORTANT LIES INSIDE YOU_

We all know that pencil has two  aspects,  that is the outside and the inside.Outside is made up of an eye-catching wooden casing  which is extremely colourfull and polished and the  inside contains the dark lead made up of graphite which is soft ann can be broken down easily. The same thing is with us,we too have two aspects, the outside that has our personality, our looks, our presence and the inside which is our behaviour,our gratitude, our morals. The outside is about the charisma, our style, our presentation, how we speak and the inside is about being genuine but we always focus on only outside,we ends our whole life in improving our looks, our personality but we forget about being genuine, improving our behaviour, having  good morals. In today's world we are in race to attract others, to impress others but my dear if you will improve your inner aspect you won't need to gain other's attention, they will automatically get attracted towards you. 

2.WE HAVE TO BE  SHARPENED TO LEAVE AN IMPACT_

We all know how to write something with pencil. We have to use a sharpener to sharp the pencil so that the lead can come out and we be able to write. Same is the case with us my dear friends, unless we go through painful sharpening the best things within us will never come out.As great man said, NO PAIN,NO GAIN. So if you haven't gone through pain you can not make an impact to others. It may be painful and once you may think to give up but always remember that unless a pencil is fully sharpened,  it never gains the perfection that we need.Similarly once you are fully sharped, once you have suffered much pain and trouble in your life, you will turn into an almost perfect being and every one would like you, everyone would want you.

3.EXTRA PRESSURE CAN BREAK US_

We know that if we put excess pressure over  pencil the lead gets broke down. Same thing is with us, if we takes too much pressure in our life by taking tension and other loads, we can get mentally retarded and will lose confidence. So always remember that we do not have to take too much pressure in life. Live life with fun. And everything will go on very smoothly. Everything will be fine. It is also the thing that our family, our relatives tend to pressurize us, not purposely but only when they care for us. But you take care about not to think too much about anything. Listen to what others says but think only about what's important.

4.THERE IS ALWAYS AN ERASER_

Ever wonder why erasers are attached with pencil. It is because as soon you write something wrong, you can erase it immediately and correct your mistake. A great man once said, "Erasers are not made for those who make mistakes but are for those who are willing to correct their mistakes." These are very true and powerful words. Same is the case with our life, as soon as a mistake is done by you, you get a chance to erase it and correct it. So don't worry if there went something wrong, you will always get a chance, not true that always the case but if it is not the same then there be something more better that is waiting for you. Your job is to find the eraser of your life and work with more attention.

5.YOU ALWAYS NEED SOMEONE TO SUPPORT YOU_

Have you ever seen a pencil writing on its own? This may be true in fairy tales, but in real world a pencil always needs someone to hold it, support it and make use of it. Similarly in life, you need someone to support you, to leave a valuable impact of you. It may be your family, friends or anyone else but we all need someone to guide us and without them we are incomplete, you may be perfect but without support you might be unknown about your abilities, you can't do anything especially in today's world where being alone you can't do anything. So it is one of the most important lesson from a pencil.  

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TIPS TO ACHIEVE SUCCESS

You will  definitely gonna archive success . No  matter who you are and what you think and for that we have 9 unbeatable tips which will help you to gain success 

1.THINK BIG _ 

First step to success is to think big . more big you think more big you can get  "a person can get everything what he thinks."

So first of all think as big as you can. Just you have believe yourself that you can do it because if you don't believe yourself and nothing gonna happen. So thing big and believe yourself.

2.FIND WHAT YOU LOVE _

'Don't aim for success if you want it; just do what you love and believe in and it will come naturally'

_ David Frost.
Find what you love means find something in which you are good enough, you really wanna do that, you can do anything for it, find your passion and do work for it. Never try to do something in which you are not good or something you don't wanna do in someones pressure because may be you will be successful but it never makes you happy. So do something which you love.

3. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF_

Believing yourself is the key role for success because if you do not believe in yourself you can't do anything. Believing yourself means you know what are you doing and you know that you can do it, whatever it is but believe in yourself that you can do it at any mean, at any stituation, at any condition.
So be confident about yourself and believe that  you can do it.

4. MAKE A PLAN_

Do not wish for it plan for it. Make  good plan that you don't need plan B. In your journey of success, plan gives you direction. So if you go in path of success without knowing the direction you will definitely gonna lost. So go with a good plan.

5.SEEK KNOWLEDGE 

Knowledge is something which helps to updating your plan because as much knowledge you have, as much good plan you make. So keep knowledge as much as you can and implement it.

6.STOP BEING NICE TO YOURSELF 

The more you work hard the more life pays.Talent do not pay but working hard pays.You always being nice to yourself which limiting you to give your full potential and achieve your goals.Go hard yourself in every stituation and make an impact. Do everything which helps you to get closer to your dreams, work for it and achieve them.

7.DISCIPLINE _

Discipline is the difference between what you want now and what you want most. Discipline play a huge role because if you are not in discipline with your goals, your dreams trust me you can't achieve them because if you are not in Discipline with your goals means you really don't need them. So be in discipline.

8.GET RID OF DISTRACTION 

If you get distracted you are lost . So be focused on your goal and say fuckoff to all assholes who are distracting you. In you journey of success you will fined so many distraction, which try to make to loose your confidence and if fall under distractions then you definitely gonna lose your confidence and once you lose your confidence you gonna distracted from your path and you can't achieve your goals, your dreams. so never ever fall under distractions, always be focused to your goals.

9.PATIENCE_

Learning patients require a lots of patient . Never give up on something which you really want, it is difficult to wait but more difficult to regret. Patience is a thing which is impossible for everyone to handle it. If you really mean it be in patience and it will come automatically. just believe in yourself and wait for it and you definitely gonna achieve success.

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