Life To Days Or Days To Life

All things that live in this world die. This is why you must find joy in the living when the time is yours, and not fear about the end. To deny this is to deny life. Live for the journey, not destination. Don't waste it. Don't waste your life.

Adding life to days is eventually more vital than adding days to life. One will make you die with memories and the other with troubles. The final result of both is the unpredictable death. God has already decided when and how we all will die. The choice is all yours, to die with peace or without peace. In spite of being aware about this, some people rush towards adding days to life. They always tries to do something that could increase their life - span, like visiting saints, worshipping holy places, making mannats and so on. But don't you think this need not be done when all you will get is waste of time, and scarcity of peace, fun and experience. What you will do with such a life that provides you nothing.

There is a line from the movie "WHIPLASH" (2014) -
"I'd rather die drunk, broke at 34 and have people at a dinner table talk about me, than live to be rich and sober at 90, and nobody remember who I was." This lines are so true. Long life is of no use if you have made nothing out of it. Use the days in doing something great, something different. Work until you no longer have to introduce yourself. Have an image of your own. Don't work to have a royal death, rather work to live royal. If you have the courage then use it in your happiness, in your well being and not in dreaming of a famous death.

Be happy with what you have. Don't waste all of your time in different races of life because life never waits for you. Pick out happy moments from all the walks of your life. Work for your life rather than wandering here and there in search of people and ways that can provide you more days. Spend that time in collecting good memories. You must go on adventures to find out where you truly belongs.

We must learn from one of the most inspirational Nick Vujicic who was born without arms and legs, despite of his disabilities, he is a painter, a swimmer, a skydiver and a motivational speaker. He doesn't weep over his life troubles but enjoy it to the fullest. He never thinks about which could be his last day and he not only has positive attitude in himself and stays happy but helps millions of people through his inspirational speeches and his story of faith, hope and overcoming adversity. Today he became a world famous personality.

Friends, what you will do with a long-life when  everyday has no life in itself. By adding life to days we are adding a new life every day. Each moment add a new glimpse to our life which helps us to live our journey more happier. Adding days to life is like living with mind, you will get nothing out of it. But sometimes living wierd is all that you have to do. So just live from your heart not from mind. Live it like this way and you will never regret it. Just make it the slogan of life "YOLO" i.e. "You Only Live Once". Don't live to be 100. Live for the now.

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Can a girl and a boy be just friends?

This is a most common misconception among the people of recent generation. They tend to think that if a girl and boy are frank to each other, they cannot be just friends. They are thought to be in relationship. This is the so called thinking of people living in 21st century. I know the one having such type of thinking will hate my content, but guys this is so true.

If a boy/girl are friendly enough it is not always necessary that they are boyfriend and girlfriend. They can be just friends too if they truly meant it to be. However, I too disagree over the topic. You might be wondering that why it is so, am i right? According to me, if a boy/girl used to talk to each other too much, if they shares everything to each other without any hesitation. They are something more than 'just friends', they are 'best friends for life'.

They may be in love too, a better kind of never ending love.




Those girl and boy trust each other, they cares for each other, they understand each other, they scold each other, and they stay together forever beyond words, beyond distance and beyond time. They know one another, they inspire one another, they helps you to be a better person and this be not wrong to say that they makes you a better person.

A most famous incident proving this be the friendship between Harry and Hermione. They proved the world that one can stays as friends. Thanks to them for leaving such a great example.

If a girl talks to more than one boy, she is considered a slut. But why it is the way? Can a girl not make so many friends like the way a boy makes many? Does the girl has no rights to talk to many? Is she living in a different society? Being a human being who the hell are you to call her a slut. People possessing such a mid-class thinking must know that particular girl is not a slut, rather slut is your mind and your way of thinking. You people must go and wash your dirty mind. Yaa guys I'm so sorry that I hurted your ego but being a part of this society you definitely need to change.

Difference between love and friendship :
Friendship and love are like the two opposite sides of a coin. Let us now know the way this two differs. Lovers always talk about their love but friends hardly talk about their friendship. Love means change in one's choices, and opinions but friendship means trust. Love means restrictions while friendship means end of restrictions. Lovers feels it odd to talk to one another like the way they used to talk to their friends like abusing one another, feeling free to say everything they want. The fights in love results in the most common break-ups and then obviously moving on a search for a new partner. Is it a true kind of love in which one forgets someone so easily and gets ready to be with an another person. It can not be neglected that not everyone is the same. Some kind of lovers are good too.

Is this the same in case of friends? No, it is not so. Friends fight but the love that is between them is a pure kind of love, an eternal love that restricts them to replace each other. It is true that when love is there, friendship vanishes but in case of true friends love exceeds. Obviously this is a different kind of love. And I think this is a better one. Always explaining and justifying your love ends it day by day, often people gets bored from their partners while friends never do so, they remain together for life. I am not saying that I am against love between two partners but that love must be like friendship, that never ends and remains the same forever, and the one that is filled with joy and happiness which has no doubts, sacrifices or restrictions.






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What is karma | Real meaning of karma | Explained in short.

"You harm yourself, as dust thrown against the wind comes back thrower."

                                                                                                                         - Buddha.

Origin_

Karma is a concept came from the east and is mainly popular in Buddhism and Hindu tradition. Karma it self is a Sanskrit word, which actually means actions.

Myths of karma_ 

Most of the people especially in West thinks that Karma is a universal law of justice. For example, if someone robe the bank and the police is unable to catch him, people used to think that karma will play his role and something bad will happen to the roberer or basically if someone had done something wrong or evil then karma will make him suffer physically mentally or emotionally.

Real meaning of karma_

Basically karma can be thought to be something like the concept of action and reaction. It is said that every action has its equal and opposite reaction. Same funda is with karma but it may take time, i.e.  whatever good or bad you do, you will surely receive something as a present of your work. There is an idiom, what you sow is what you get. So karma is all about if you have done something good to someone in return karma will payoff you good and if you have done something wrong to someone or evil to someone then in return karma will make you to suffer.

Karma tell you what type of person you are.As your attitude towards other reflects the inner you.The what you get in return is what you really are.The way you are treated is the reflection of how you treared them.

Karma is literally a bitch.It will make you suffer what you make others to or it will make you happier.

Do such things that when karma will return it amaze you with happiness not shock with the troubles

This is all what Karma is.

So fear from your karma. Never do something bad to others else you will have to suffer. Always be kind and generous to others, help others, be good to other and wait for karma for his turn.

So always be kind to other, help others, be good to other and wait for karma for his turn.

Opportunities are like alarm clock - we must know how to respond

Have any of you ever set up your alarm clock to wake up in the morning? I am sure you have. Of course, I am not asking how many of you have been successful in waking up after the alarm goes. It's quite amazing to see the different reactions of different individuals when the alarm goes and I have classified different people in four different types which I call sleepers, snoozers, fallers and wakers.

1.Sleepers_ 

This guys, when the alarm rings, they are so deep in their sleep, practically in the state of slumber that everyone around them wakes up but these guys are fast asleep. They don't listen to the clock and are busy sleeping.

2.Snoozers_

These are the people who when the alarm rings says,"Let me sleep for five minutes more." These guys profusely express their gratitude to God for having inspired that gentleman who invented the snooze button. When people keep just snoozing, five minutes, five minutes more, another five minutes, and their five minutes goes on for hours; each ring of their alarm eventually turn second to minutes, minutes to hours and complete working time to ideal one. But at least these guys wake up at the fourth or fifth snooze and rescue themselves from a major loss. 

3.Fallers_

Those guys who wakes up at the first ring of the alarm, they even change their state and sit in their bed but fails to make themselves out of deep ocean of their own confusions. Asking themselves, "Who am I? Why did I set the alarm in the first place?" And then conveniently they turn off the alarm and again go back to sleep. 

4.Wakers_

This is the best category I found. These are the people who actually wakes up as soon as the alarm rings. They get out of bed and hit the floor to start with their day to day activities. They never waste their time and are very strict with their schedule. Though these kind of people are very hard to find but they are the ones who move the footsteps towards victory.

Life is like an alarm clock. It gives everyone many opportunities and chances to overcome from their situations and problems. When life clock rang some, there are four types of people again :-

1.Sleepers_

They keep hearing the opportunities, but they are in such a deep state of slumber, that they don't respond at all. In fact they just continue with their old ways and lose all their new opportunities. For their assumptions the stroke of alarm was not for them but for others, or it can be said that they gave others a signal to start something new but they themselves do not make even a single step to move on with life's opportunities. 

2.Snoozers_

These kinda people on hearing the life opportunities, they say, "Yes, we will grab this opportunity, we have to do it but eventually not today, we will start from tomorrow."  They just snooze and snooze, and they keep postponing. But finally a good day arrives when they achieves it. Most of the people belong to this kind. They lose most of their time in just postponing their tasks and increases their burden.

3.Fallers_

Those who when they hear any opportunity, they actually wake up, they start changing, they start doing right. But then, for some reason they go back to their old ways, they lose their hopes and lose their opportunities to achieve good. Perhaps they still holds the hand of their past and find it difficult to leave. They can't make themselves understand that their own beliefs are the only hindrance for them. They resist the possible changes in their life and remain stuck with their old types.

4.Wakers_

These are those people, who when opportunities clock is heard by them, they wake up. Awaken, and start the process of transformation and change by the earliest means and they become successful. In real, they are the holder of time and opportunity at the same stroke. Their success is the reflection of their efforts in finding, understanding, realizing and utilizing the opportunity available to them. 

All of us have to be wakers. We must not be like sleepers, snoozers or fallers. So grab the opportunities just like a child holds its favorite toy, a mother holds her child and an eye holds a dream to become successful in life. If you succeed in becoming a waker, then you are sure to succeed in life.

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