what is true love

Ever wondered what make a relationship meaningful, genuine, lasting forever ? Ever wondered what is true love? love is more then often used three words I LOVE U! Love is more then sentiments and touchy feelings. Love is not a noun its a verb. It is full of actions.

Life To Days Or Days To Life

All things that live in this world die. This is why you must find joy in the living when the time is yours, and not fear about the end. To deny this is to deny life. Live for the journey, not destination. Don't waste it. Don't waste your life.

Adding life to days is eventually more vital than adding days to life. One will make you die with memories and the other with troubles. The final result of both is the unpredictable death. God has already decided when and how we all will die. The choice is all yours, to die with peace or without peace. In spite of being aware about this, some people rush towards adding days to life. They always tries to do something that could increase their life - span, like visiting saints, worshipping holy places, making mannats and so on. But don't you think this need not be done when all you will get is waste of time, and scarcity of peace, fun and experience. What you will do with such a life that provides you nothing.

There is a line from the movie "WHIPLASH" (2014) -
"I'd rather die drunk, broke at 34 and have people at a dinner table talk about me, than live to be rich and sober at 90, and nobody remember who I was." This lines are so true. Long life is of no use if you have made nothing out of it. Use the days in doing something great, something different. Work until you no longer have to introduce yourself. Have an image of your own. Don't work to have a royal death, rather work to live royal. If you have the courage then use it in your happiness, in your well being and not in dreaming of a famous death.

Be happy with what you have. Don't waste all of your time in different races of life because life never waits for you. Pick out happy moments from all the walks of your life. Work for your life rather than wandering here and there in search of people and ways that can provide you more days. Spend that time in collecting good memories. You must go on adventures to find out where you truly belongs.

We must learn from one of the most inspirational Nick Vujicic who was born without arms and legs, despite of his disabilities, he is a painter, a swimmer, a skydiver and a motivational speaker. He doesn't weep over his life troubles but enjoy it to the fullest. He never thinks about which could be his last day and he not only has positive attitude in himself and stays happy but helps millions of people through his inspirational speeches and his story of faith, hope and overcoming adversity. Today he became a world famous personality.

Friends, what you will do with a long-life when  everyday has no life in itself. By adding life to days we are adding a new life every day. Each moment add a new glimpse to our life which helps us to live our journey more happier. Adding days to life is like living with mind, you will get nothing out of it. But sometimes living wierd is all that you have to do. So just live from your heart not from mind. Live it like this way and you will never regret it. Just make it the slogan of life "YOLO" i.e. "You Only Live Once". Don't live to be 100. Live for the now.

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Why you need it ? A lesson from Tom and Jerry.

Why you need it?A lesson from Tom and Jerry:-

We had all watched the famous, heart-whelming and kid-loving cartoon Tom and Jerry once in our life. As we already know that in the show Tom and Jerry there are two main characters - Tom, the cat and Jerry, the mouse. This show teaches us a very great life lesson. This be considered similar to our life. How? Let us know this.

In the real world, if we look at the life chain, then the cat is obviously much stronger than the rat. The cat never leaves the rat. But haven't you wondered, in this cartoon who is dominant and who is powerful? 

As per the rules, the more powerful is Tom, the cat due to his size, strength and everything else. But the dominant one is Jerry, the mouse.

Tom always fades and Jerry attains the victory. Ever thought even after such strengths and abilities, why is Tom recessive?

This is because Tom runs for food, fights for food while Jerry runs for life. Tom's run is always for materialistic things but Jerry he runs for real happiness of life. Tom always wants to kill Jerry but Jerry rather than harming Tom, wants to save his life. Although Tom is much more than Jerry regarding power and strength but Jerry on other hand is nevertheless much more in wisdom. His wisdom is his only weapon against power of Tom and he always aquire victory without any harm to Tom. My dear friends our life is also like the ever-enjoyed show  and its comedian characters Tom and Jerry. So don't let your life fade away by running besides fakeness just like Tom. Make yourself like Jerry whose only aim is to get realistic happiness with a lasting state. 

The thing for which Tom runs for can be very well compared to money, fame, etc, which are merely an illusion of happiness but Jerry's work be said to be what actually is important for us, what actually we need;what we call the real happiness of realistic life. 

If you will run after fame and money, you will always get fade, even if you will try so hard what you will receive is failure. If you actually want to receive what is important work for it like "if you won't get it, you will die." And that would be something everlasting. Not only your strength is important, use your brain, and get victory with smart work. Run to make your life worthy and happy and then you will automatically get money. This must not be forget that money is not only that is required to sustain life. Money can provide you worldly things, articles but it will never provide you peace. Rather work for welfare, think not to harm others, not to kill others, think to save yourself, and turn your path towards success.

When you want to succeed as bad as you want to breath, then you'll be successful.

So take every chance just as a thirsty bird takes even the last drop of water.

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Can a girl and a boy be just friends?

This is a most common misconception among the people of recent generation. They tend to think that if a girl and boy are frank to each other, they cannot be just friends. They are thought to be in relationship. This is the so called thinking of people living in 21st century. I know the one having such type of thinking will hate my content, but guys this is so true.

If a boy/girl are friendly enough it is not always necessary that they are boyfriend and girlfriend. They can be just friends too if they truly meant it to be. However, I too disagree over the topic. You might be wondering that why it is so, am i right? According to me, if a boy/girl used to talk to each other too much, if they shares everything to each other without any hesitation. They are something more than 'just friends', they are 'best friends for life'.

They may be in love too, a better kind of never ending love.




Those girl and boy trust each other, they cares for each other, they understand each other, they scold each other, and they stay together forever beyond words, beyond distance and beyond time. They know one another, they inspire one another, they helps you to be a better person and this be not wrong to say that they makes you a better person.

A most famous incident proving this be the friendship between Harry and Hermione. They proved the world that one can stays as friends. Thanks to them for leaving such a great example.

If a girl talks to more than one boy, she is considered a slut. But why it is the way? Can a girl not make so many friends like the way a boy makes many? Does the girl has no rights to talk to many? Is she living in a different society? Being a human being who the hell are you to call her a slut. People possessing such a mid-class thinking must know that particular girl is not a slut, rather slut is your mind and your way of thinking. You people must go and wash your dirty mind. Yaa guys I'm so sorry that I hurted your ego but being a part of this society you definitely need to change.

Difference between love and friendship :
Friendship and love are like the two opposite sides of a coin. Let us now know the way this two differs. Lovers always talk about their love but friends hardly talk about their friendship. Love means change in one's choices, and opinions but friendship means trust. Love means restrictions while friendship means end of restrictions. Lovers feels it odd to talk to one another like the way they used to talk to their friends like abusing one another, feeling free to say everything they want. The fights in love results in the most common break-ups and then obviously moving on a search for a new partner. Is it a true kind of love in which one forgets someone so easily and gets ready to be with an another person. It can not be neglected that not everyone is the same. Some kind of lovers are good too.

Is this the same in case of friends? No, it is not so. Friends fight but the love that is between them is a pure kind of love, an eternal love that restricts them to replace each other. It is true that when love is there, friendship vanishes but in case of true friends love exceeds. Obviously this is a different kind of love. And I think this is a better one. Always explaining and justifying your love ends it day by day, often people gets bored from their partners while friends never do so, they remain together for life. I am not saying that I am against love between two partners but that love must be like friendship, that never ends and remains the same forever, and the one that is filled with joy and happiness which has no doubts, sacrifices or restrictions.






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Don't Trust Everything That You Hear

It is the ability or can be well said to be the human nature to trust to whatever they listen without knowing whether it is a truth or just a rumor. Believing what the crowd says is just a way of saying:
"I'm too lazy to believe my heart and knowing the truth".

There be a nice example relating this verse:
If someone offered you $100,000 to stand in front of a moving train, would you do it? I bet you said NO. But what if he/she told you the train was a toy. 
MORAL of the story - Know all the facts before you consider anything and then open your mouth.

It is better to close one's mouth than to speak foolishly.People talk shit but we don't have to listen. Anyone can spread wrong about someone, but be the one who believe the truth.

Don't be so quick to believe what you hear, because lies spread faster than the truth. Don't believe any rumor on girls/boys so fast because the boy/girl who can't get her/him may create it and the girls/boys who are jealous of her/him respectively might spread it. 

A lie can travel half way around the world while the truth is just putting on its shoes. Most of the idle people loves to create rumors about others. They find it fun to do so. They tends to think that by spreading bad things about others, they can lower others value and what is said to be their image. This is so because either they are jealous, haters or just consider it as their timepass.

The shit people talk about someone, behind their back, it's not their character, it's the character those rumor spreading people lack. Don't trust people who tell you other people's secrets. Even if you hear a bad story about someone, understand there might be a time he/she could be good to those people too but they won't tell you that. Have patience with all the things, be clear with the actual matter, then go for whatever you want to do.

Learn To Say "NO"

Learn to say 'no' without explaining yourself.
Learn to say 'no' to what is not okay.

You ought to spend a little more time trying to do something with yourself rather than spending time to impress people. We are not here to impress them we are here to make our life a recommendable example to others, to make ourselves satisfied. Learn to say no to what is not good to you. Or your conscience do not allow you. You make think it selfishness but no. I will call it self respect. 

In today's world, the knowledge about when to say yes and

when to say no is  must otherwise you will be treated as a toy or puppet controled by others. It is not always necessary to agree

to what people says. We need to put over our decisions in this

shitty world. Bring about your ideas in front of people, speak out what you feel or what is your opinion on a point. You make think it interference but no. It's our right. 

We must do what is good and not what people says.

Often we hesitate and feel odd to disagree over a speaker's statement. This attitude need to be changed.

Turn your mind to not everyone is important and not

everything they says need to be taken unto consideration,unless you yourself find it suitable. 

Be there for others but never lose yourself behind.

Whenever you want to disagree just do so within a moment

and be stuck to your opinion if the speaker is not right then it will be all fine.

Saying 'no' to useless things means saying 'no' to waste of time,

saying 'no' to tensions, saying 'no' to worries and saying 'yes' to

peace of mind and soul.

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How to stay motivated when you are losing hopes.

Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very mean and nasty place, and we must not care about how others are, as it will beat us to our knees and keep us permanently there if we let it in. You, me or nobody gonna hit it as hard as life. But it ain't about how hard you hit. It's about how hard you can get hit and still keep moving forward. How much you can take and still keep moving forward. That's how winning is done!

Sometimes we lose our hopes and motivation to achieve something and we begin to think that we can't achieve that. So here are my five golden steps to help you stay positive and achieve success, if you will follow them you will never lose motivation.

1. TAKE A DEEP BREATH_

I know it sounds awkward but its true because when you are stressed, you have to calm down. And a deep breath works the best in providing mental peace. Just what you have to do is, close your eyes, don't think anything, stay calm, breath in, hold your breath for 3-4 seconds, breath out and repeat the same for minimum 20 times. It will provide you much relief and you will be able to think and imagine things in a better way. You will understand things deeper and will help you much to move towards victory.

2. NOTE DOWN WHAT'S DISTRACTING YOU_

It is very common that there are so many things and so many people who let you lose your motivation and lose your hopes by complementing you with so many negative things that you let distract yourself. So do one thing write down all the things which makes you to lose your motivation. Never forget people will always pray for your success but never more than them. They will always try to pull you down. And if someone is pulling you down, that itself means you are already above them. So be happy if someone is doing so and continue with your works in the same manner. Ignore everyone else who is pulling you down and saying that you can't do this or that.

3. NOTE DOWN WHY YOU STARTED DOING IT_

Write down all the things for what you have started, i.e, fame, money, family, friends, dream, career, inspiration for others etc. Just write all the things in a piece of paper. This will remind you of your aim and will help to ignore other's opinion.

4. COMPARE WHATS MORE IMPORTANT_

Just compare by yourself what's more important for you , your dreams or what people thinks about you, because of which you can't handle your stress and work for your dreams. Consider by yourself that what is truely important for you, your answer must be your dreams. Once you come to know your priority, it will be very simple to overcome stress and negative thoughts. I can bet you that you can't achieve your goals if you would be stressed with what others think. After knowing all this, question yourself whether you can fight for your dreams, and achieve success or not?

5. WORK TO ACHIEVE GOOD_

Once you have decided what is more important, once you came to know your goal, then start working for achieving it. Ignore everything that distracts you from your path. Just stay determinant to your goal. The only thought that must come into mind is how to attain your dream, your goal and nothing else.

If you think you can do it then just be focussed to your destination and your goals. Trust me no one can stop you. Don't listen what they say just keep it up. There is an idiom 'when an elephant walks, so many dogs barks'. Same is the case with human beings, if a person will walk towards success, is working to achieve something great, there are so many people who will bark uselessly and will tell you that you can't do this, they will try to pull you down by imparting negative thoughts and feelings, but trust me in this world nothing is impossible. You can do whatever you think if you are truly determinant to it.

Don't just read this content and leave it, try it practically and I am 100% sure that if you will  follow it you will definitely get motivated and will never lose hope. So just try it.